<p>cJgrl05, Eclipsed, definitely get a mentor. I can't imagine what my life would have been like without mine. </p>
<p>I understand where you're coming from Eclipsed. I should say that I didn't mean slack off and get bad grades. Learning for learning's sake should translate out to good grades most of the time. I just think there needs to be a shift in perspective. </p>
<p>Because my parents had me when they were teenagers, I was a teenager myself when my father went to med school and got to see the process for myself. My father earned a perfect 4.0 in college and did very well on the MCAT, but he only got accepted into two med schools, and they weren't the ones he wanted. The reason was that all he had were his grades and his MCAT. He didn't have anything that showed a passion for becoming a doctor. He didn't have awesome recommendation letters and he only had the minimum amount of volunteer hours. There was absolutely nothing to set him apart from the rest. I once met someone from the school my dad really wanted to go to, and while he wouldn't have been in my dad's class, he was really close. I think he was the year after. Anyway, both his GPA and his MCAT were lower than my dad's, but he had spent his five years of college (yeah, it takes that long now) volunteering in low income medical clinics. He was devoted to bringing medical care to the poor and planned to do that after his residency. He had letters, he had experience, he had it all. And in the end, he got in and someone with a 4.0 didn't. Grades are important, but they aren't everything. Looking at a long list of A's in everything from English Lit to O-Chem isn't going to tell an adcom committee anything about you. If one is planning on practicing medicine, one should volunteer in a hospital or clinic. If one is planning on researching, he or she should volunteer as research assistant. That says something.</p>
<p>Another problem with focusing solely on GPA is what happens when you lose that 4.0. I can guarantee you, you're not going to get perfect grades in med school, or law school, or wherever. There's maybe one person in a decade who does, and chances are you or I or anyone here are not that person. My dad had a hard time with this in med school, and ended up on anti-depressants. A lot of people washed out of his program. It was weird for me to see his friends start disappearing one by one. If you have no other reason to do what you do besides your grade, you don't have anything to keep you there when you lose your perfection and have to keep going. </p>
<p>A bunch of my friends graduated last June. Shortly before graduation, a bunch of us got together for what turned out to be a really emotional evening. Those who were graduating were moving on to some very good law schools and grad schools, internships, and one even got a real job. We made several toasts that evening, and the very last one was, "to our naivety, when we thought our GPAs actually mattered!" </p>
<p>Don't slack off: do your best. But stop thinking in terms of getting a 4.0, and start thinking in terms of learning. 4.0s go away, and so does their importance. Employers don't ask for your GPA. Grad schools look at your test scores, writing samples (if applicable), recommendation letters, and relevant experience in addition to your GPA -- they're not going to not accept people for the crime of not having a 4.0. Knowledge, however, does not go away, nor does its importance. I mentioned earlier that there were times when I had trouble focusing on learning instead of the A. I am good at cramming, writing a brilliant analysis on a test, and then forgetting it all. I look at my tests from those times when I slipped and cared only about the A, and it's like a stranger wrote them. I certainly don't remember any of it, and what good does that do me? What purpose does the A I got on those tests serve me? I've had to go back and study that material, and I wish I would have done it right the first time. </p>
<p>And I have to say, learning for learning's sake still gets me damn good grades. ;-)</p>