<p>There are legitimate reasons not to attend UVA, which the admissions office would know well since they survey students who turn down offers of admission. D, and several other top students I know, chose to attend other schools for a variety of reasons.</p>
<p>D1 wanted to continue a sport, but was not competitive for UVAs teams, so part of her decision was to attend a DIII school. </p>
<p>Choice of major was another; either the major was not offered or it was not accredited at UVA. </p>
<p>Personal attention during the admissions process was a factor, and no, this does not equate to scholarship money. It meant that there was an admissions counselor who was a point of contact and provided personal communications throughout the process. This did make a difference in perception of being a person vs. being a number during the process, and potentially as a student. </p>
<p>While the grounds are beautiful and the history impressive, there is another side. It is difficult to look at the historical buildings, or the founder of UVA, without thinking of the meaning of slavery and the role it played at the University. </p>
<p>Also, it took the threat of a federal lawsuit to bring women into UVA and engineering, all within my lifetime, so that was a personal concern to this mom. </p>
<p>Finally, during days on the lawn, the student guide said that the professors were old and couldnt teach. I understood the context in which he said this (trying to alleviate a concern asked about number of TAs and their effectiveness) but it was a stupid thing to say to students deciding on whether or not to attend UVA.</p>
<p>D2 is a current applicant and I would be happy for her to attend UVA. But please dont trivialize reasons smart, capable, admitted students would chose to thrive at another University. UVA suits some, and not others.</p>