<p>There is an athletic recruitment forum on this board that you may want to take your question to.</p>
<p>That being said, if you’ve not been given an admissions slot, the coach is not permitted to help you with admission, unless Harvard decides to cheat on the athletic recruitment agreement, and I really don’t think they do that. There is a fixed number of slots per team, and admissions officers in the Ivy League have said at times that they bring on athletes reluctantly, having to turn down applicants superior in many other ways to make room for athletes.</p>
<p>I think that the coach told you that admissions is brutal because admissions is brutal. It’s a tough door to get past without a hook like a coach’s slot, or you being the daughter of Bill Gates, or by being extraordinary in every way conceivable. I think that she is also telling you that she is not going to be able to give you any support with admissions.</p>
<p>There’s really no reason for the coach not to tell you that you’ve been given an admissions slot unless you haven’t been given one. They don’t have to play coy. If the coach wants you, admissions will preread the barebones of your application to determine if you are academically qualified. That’s when you are given a Likely Letter, so the coach can nail you down to keep you from going elsewhere.</p>
<p>This could mean the following:</p>
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<li><p>She could have her athletes already committed for the class (not unusual, as many apply SCEA, and then commit).</p></li>
<li><p>She could have other likely letters out, and if those applicants don’t commit, you could be given an admissions slot.</p></li>
</ul>
<p>Again, I hate saying this to you, but most likely, this means that you are not one of her top recruits, but she would be happy to have you if you do get accepted. </p>
<p>This is an old game that I’ve seen Ivy coaches play, as well as coaches at other non-scholarship schools. If they feel that an applicant might get in without their help, there is nothing stopping them from recruiting them and getting them excited about their school, because you might become a contributor, and if you don’t, you didn’t cost her an admissions slot. A friend’s son showed up at the opening day of a Division 3 football team’s football camp to discover that there were 9 fullbacks at practice in his class. All thought they had been recruited, but most had gotten in on their academic merits (the school had an SAT average of 1600 or so, so admission wasn’t that difficult).</p>
<p>I think it’s fair for you to ask the coach how many admission slots she has, and how many athletes have committed. You might not get the truth, however.</p>
<p>If you do get accepted, and you feel that my guess is correct, and that the coach didn’t think you were athletically strong enough to be given an admissions slot, that could be a sign that she sees you as a marginal prospect. If so, and if playing your sport is very important to you, you may want to consider a school that recruited you more aggressively, or one where you are reasonably certain that you can play.</p>
<p>I’m sorry to give you news like this, but I’ve seen some coaches mislead a lot of kids over the years. </p>
<p>Good luck with all of this.</p>