<p>After looking at the essay topics on the common app I've found that I had a great example for the "Recount an incident or time when you experienced failure. How did it affect you, and what lessons did you learn?" essay topic but I was wondering how this would reflect on me as an applicant</p>
<p>I was thinking of writing about not making the JV soccer team sophmore year and how that affected my identity and attitude through the rest of high school. However, when I start writing I always feel like I making myself out to be someone who didn't persevere enough and by recounting my failure I am admitting to flaws of character that colleges don't want to see in their applicants.</p>
<p>I really like the topic but it seems like it would be a bad idea to give the admissions officer another reason not to accept me.</p>