<p>I am planning to enroll at Loyola this fall and I REALLY don't want to go there at all. Naturally, I'm going to give the school a chance and put myself out there and try to enjoy it, but all my intuitions tell me that it is just not the school for me. It's been bugging me so much that I've started feeling very depressed about the whole situation. You see, I'm a quiet, introverted kind of guy and I like to read books and have meaningful discussions with people. My idea of fun is not defined solely as going to the bars every Friday, Saturday and Sunday and getting wasted. I'm not into that kind of stuff. When I went to orientation last month, I just knew this was not the place for me.
So, I have two questions now.</p>
<p>Firstly: Assuming I'm miserable my first semester, should I come home (LI) and go to Hofstra for my second semester of freshman year and then transfer to a better school?... or would it be better to stick it out for freshman year and transfer from Loyola. </p>
<p>Secondly: Can someone recommend some schools for me? I want to major in English and philosophy and am looking for like-minded people. I don't want to go somewhere with a big party scene and sporty atmosphere, but I also want a somewhat conventional college experience (so please don't mention St. John's College, 'cause I would feel odd there). And I can't get into anything like NYU or Georgetown--I plan to do very well this year with grades, but my high school grades are rather average.</p>
<p>Thank you so, so much for any help!</p>