Personally , if it is affordable I’d run to Bryn Mawr which is very similar to your target schools – be grateful you got in and got a good financial package. As a Bryn Mawr student you will also be able to very easily take classes at Haverford if you feel you want to supplement any science coursework. If you really don’t like Bryn Mawr for whatever reason then go to your state school.
You should accept the waitlist spot at Smith and Wellesley but they would need to be affordable before you consider attending. Don’t expect to get in from the waitlist and proceed as if you those schools were out of the equation.
Stop sulking about the schools you didn’t get into and embrace the ones that accepted you and are financially do-able. Do you know how many people would give almost anything to be in your position?
For future posts, I’d use more paragraphs as that huge block of text is hard to read through.