Post #55 nailed it. ^ points out that entering with the intention of transferring is not a good idea. However I don’t think that Brown is on the table for next year. A gap year would allow you to take some ownership of this process, which apparently was lacking. However my instinct is UVa.
By the way, S#1 applied to UVa as the back up school which he would have loved to attend. Affordable, prestigious, etc. Their very interesting program in art mentoring would have made it worthwhile for him, and he had the stats for Ivys. Couldn’t the equestrian aspect be that for you?
OP have you made a decision?