Relationship Continue??

Student Lounge College Life
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<p>This is the story. I am a Junior and my bf is a Senior, so next year he will be going to Carneige Mellon and I will be here in stupid high school. There is a 6 hour driving distance, so I doubt we can see each other much, probably every few months. </p>

<p>We really love each other but I don't really trust him. This sounds stupid, but he has NEVER done anything to make me not trust him... but I just don't. <-- I know it sounds stupid!! </p>

<p>Also, he gets to be a little bit sneaky sometimes. He thinks I'm overly jealous (at times I am) so he hides stuff so I don't get mad even if he didn't do anything. Like that one time, him and 4 other guys went over to this girl's house. They are kind of friends. And he was afraid to tell me because he didn't want me to be mad. SO yeah...</p>

<p>Like, I really love him. Do I want to do this?? I want to, so is there any advice? He is purely trustworthy and honest (at the moment...). People don't change just for college? And if we truly loved each other, there would be no chance of him or me liking someone else. </p>

<p>Please just give me advice!!</p>

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<p>I’d say cut your losses. You two will be in very different places (both physically and mentally), you won’t be able to see each other, and most importantly: you clearly do not trust him.</p>

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<p>You don’t love each other if you can’t trust him. Period. You are not going to spend the rest of your life with him. Break up with him, the sooner you do it the sooner you can move on and actually find somebody who will respect you and be honest with you.</p>

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<p>^ or somebody that she doesn’t get overly jealous with. Thats the recipe for good nights.</p>

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<p>Yeah it’s over sorry,
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<p>You’re right. You are overly jealous.</p>

<p>Break it off. If you don’t trust him, then I don’t see your relationship working at all.</p>

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<p>Advice: start early, because it’s already over.</p>

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<p>It’s over.</p>

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<p>Gosh. I can only pray that my boyfriend isn’t like you. (He’s a junior, I’m a senior).</p>

<p>But seriously… If you don’t trust him now, why on earth would you trust him when he’s 6 hours away and you don’t see him for months?</p>

<p>I’d say break it off.</p>

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<p>Definitely break up.</p>

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<p>“People don’t change just for college?”</p>

<p>Yes they do. A LOT of people change in college, not radically in terms of personality, but in terms of their priorities and what they think is important. It is much easier to be selfish, independent, and not keep in contact with family/friends from home…major reasons why most relationships don’t last from high school to college. </p>

<p>In your case, breaking up seems like the best thing to do. Sorry.</p>

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<p>Your relationship is over. People change in college and if you don’t trust him now, you won’t trust him then. Break it off. It’s no good for either of you.</p>