<p>loveshack(dot)org has great advice, you should post there instead of asking advice from some college students imo.</p>
<p>She is probably going through a very difficult time. I would agree that you should wait on proposing. If you really love her, sit her down and talk to her about this. Tell her this is important for not just your relationship but her health. You two should try working out together, and help her eat healthy by eating healthy yourself (ie cooking in, making healthy meals, joining a gym together)</p>
<p>I’d encourage her to see a doctor for tests to see if she has a thyroid, other metabolic problem or if a counseling referral is appropriate.</p>
<p>Then she should get smart and dump the guy who would post before- and after-pics. Totally classless.</p>
<p>Well, she hight have an underactive thyroid. You said she is “expecting” a ring? That’s a red flag, I think. But I don’t k now anything. I proposed to my GF 3 months ago. It was a disaster. We don’t even talk now.</p>
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<p>Not really. If you’re going strong after 4 years and you’ve talked about marriage and such, “expecting” a ring isn’t far off.</p>
<p>Yes but I don’t think most girls would have the gall to expect a ring after they’ve given up on life and packed on a 100 pounds lol.</p>
<p>I’m too lazy to review the OP and see if he really said that, but it sounds like they stopped going strong 2 years ago.</p>
<p>I proposed in September, as I think I mentioned before, and I regret it. The girl was a filipina (I went to the Philippines for her). I bought the engagement ring before i even saw her… I can’t believe how stupid love made me. anyways, she lies (she was already married to a Filipino) I don’t know the full story.</p>