<p>i am a female HS junior. i am in a serious relationship (13 months) with a college freshman.</p>
<p>he deliberately chose our flagship U so that i could dual-enroll there when i got to be a junior. now that i am, i see him a lot at school (we have a class together! :D). i hang out a lot with him after school, but we've never had sex. </p>
<p>he wants me to stay the night in his dorm. i'm not really sure what i want, or what to do...</p>
<p>any opinions?</p>
<p>Sleep with him, then press charges and have him arrested, obviously.</p>
<p>If you're not ready for sex, DON'T. If he really cares about you, he'll respect it. If you do feel ready, and are totally 100% sure you're ready, he sounds like a wonderful guy and just make sure he respects you and you should have a wonderful experience :)</p>
<p>@arbiter213: lol.</p>
<p>anyway, ask yourself these questions:Why does he want me to stay the night (is there some ulterior motive for this request)? Might he pressure me to do something I don't want to do? Do i trust/am I comfortable with him? Will my parents approve? </p>
<p>If there are negative responses to these questions, you probably shouldn't go...</p>
<p>13 months is a long relationship for a couple your age to go without have sex. </p>
<p>He sounds like a really nice guy if he's willing to wait for you, and he chose his college because of you!? Wow. You're really lucky.</p>
<p>Legality aside, it sounds like you are in a great relationship, and, as above posters has said, I'm sure he'll continue to wait for you if he cares about you. But after 13 months, along with the fact that he's in college (frankly, surrounded by women), it's probably the right time to take your relationship to the next level.</p>
<p>good luck.</p>
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<p>That is the dumbest thing ever.</p>
<p>haha you are planning your higher education around a childish romance</p>
<p>You can sleep over without having sex.</p>
<p>ya i agree with chuy. but if you do have sex you're not a horrible person or anything.</p>
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