I agree and I would expect that the housing director is an ADULT, not a student. If he’s not, the head of residential life. This is scary stuff and is not what our kids should have to be dealing with as “part of their college experience.” When I was a student, our RAs were grad students in psychology. Fortunately, I’m not aware of us having issues like the OPs, but mental health issues can show themselves first in college and worsen as academic pressure increases (like finals, projects, midterms, etc.)