<p>Just an update on the situation: any further input much appreciated.</p>
<p>Got a call this morning from our S letting us know that he was in town without our knowledge, had been staying at a friend’s house. He wanted to come home and was sorry for not telling us that he was home. (this is an 8 hour bus ride home for him.)</p>
<p>We went to pick him up. He is very distraught still over the breakup with the GF and really doesn’t know that he can finish the quarter. His attention is not on classes at all. </p>
<p>We don’t know what to do short of sending him back for finishing the quarter, and hoping he passes his classes. It is too late to withdraw, and this doesn’t really qualify as a medical emergency.</p>
<p>He is admitting that he may have a general problem with anxiety and focus, and our first order of business this summer is probably to get him in to see someone. </p>
<p>I just feel so bad for him right now as he is really raw from the breakup. It is hard to tell him he has to suck it up for a few more weeks and focus on his classes. We have let him know that he needs to find a tutor for the math class, and not to worry that it will cost some money. </p>
<p>Any other ideas?</p>