<p>I recently started working at a research lab in the engineering college at my university.
I am having some concerns with the person I have to work with already. Basically the problem is I'm volunteering 10 hours a week for the lab. I can't afford more time than this. I honestly have almost no free time, except maybe Friday nights, outside of school and these 10 hours.</p>
<p>The professor wants me to work with someone who works in his lab. Let's call this other person 123 (not a grad student, but I think he has a B.S.). Basically 123 can boss me around, I think. The problem I have with him is he wants me to work longer than I can afford. He gives me tasks and deadlines and says if I don't finish those before the deadline, I would need to sacrifice time from elsewhere to finish those tasks. OK.
The problem is the tasks he gave me take way longer than my 10 hrs/week can manage and it's not even close. I'm volunteering in the lab with the expectation that I spend 10 hours doing whatever task I'm given. It seems that 123 thinks he can give me whatever he wants and I must finish it even if it takes significantly longer. </p>
<p>As I said, 10 hours a week is about the maximum I can afford. </p>
<p>I don't think 123 understands that I have other classes that take up most of my time. I'm pretty sure he knows that the things he wants me to do will take much longer than 10 hours. I'm not talking about spending an extra hour or too. I'm talking about spending an extra 20 hours a week. </p>
<p>Oh and over spring break, I was on vacation. He practically messaged me every day giving me a new task to do and wants it done by the next day (still spring break). I told him I was on vacation and I'll do it when I get back. He told me to tell him when I got back from vacation. I did. Right after telling him, he asks me to come meet him in his office.
Basically this is what happened on a timeline:
3pm: got off plane
4pm: got home
4:15pm: told 123 I was back
4:30pm: Can you meet me in my office today at 5:30pm?
***? This is a bit ridiculous lol. </p>
<p>123 is foreign and seems like a very hard working employee, so maybe this is because of that. </p>
<p>So I'm kind of confused as to what to do. I like the research in the lab. Would it be best to talk to my professor about this? What do I do if the professor sides with 123?</p>