My RA and I are fairly close and have been flirting with each other this entire year. She’s a junior and I’m a first-year, both of us are gay, and I don’t know the exact rules my college has with a resident and RA being together. We almost made out last night at formal, but there were too many people around so didn’t end up doing anything except hug/flirt/etc… I’m also applying to transfer, so I might not be on campus next year, but we plan to keep messaging each other. She also recently moved buildings and has a single now, but is still my RA…
What are your thoughts on pursuing anything in the last month of the semester?
I’d read through the residential life pages on your college website. Or, if you want to be really bold, why not ask the RA? Pretty sure she will know exactly what is and isn’t allowed.
I’ve gone through the entire residential life page but couldn’t find anything about this. I do think that it would be a little different though because she no longer lives in the same building? I could ask though