<p>posted by starbright: “It’s your money, the kids are independent adults.”</p>
<p>Obviously, they are not independent adults. If they were independent, they would not be accepting money from others in order to finance their personal expenses. They would be working jobs to finance their own personal expenses. </p>
<p>I still feel that the OP should respect the parents and not offer money to the girls. The girls obviously made their decision knowing that the parents were not on board with the idea. They understood what the consequences would be (financial) and still made the choice to attend the unaccredited college. Now, let them deal with the lack of funds and let them take on the responsibility for their life choices. If their choice means not being able to afford certain things, then let them accept and deal with the consequence of their decision. </p>
<p>Don’t view this as punishment for their actions. Rather, view this as a learning tool for the girls to take full responsibility for their choices and to accept the consequences of their decisions and actions. This is a necessary life skill that’s best learned now rather than later.</p>