<p>“nysmile - what if the girls had chosen a life style with which you agree? would you feel the same way?”</p>
<p>Yes, I would feel the same way. I’m not basing my posts on my personal opinion as to whether their college choice is right or wrong. It’s their choice to make. However, with every choice in life there are consequences. The girls were aware of the consequences (financial) when they made their choice. Now, it’s time for them to deal with the consequences of their choice. If that means struggling financially, so be it. It is a lesson they will only learn if they are left to deal with it independently (without additional “secret” money being given to them by someone other than their parents).</p>