How do you mean, low oos? Acceptance rates? Population? It’s true that UCF and UTD have less than 10% OOS.
SMU, though, has only about 50% Texas residents. You’d definitely get merit there - run the Net Price Calculator, which estimates merit aid as well as need-based aid, and add another $7500/year to the merit estimate, because they give a $7500 IB Scholars Award to all IB graduates. My guess is that you’d come in under 40K/year at SMU, but run the NPC yourself and see. They have a whole Cybersecurity Institute FWIW. https://www.smu.edu/Lyle/Centers-and-Institutes/DDI
At any rate, a lot of this depends on how you feel about ASU, where you’re already accepted. (Barrett Honors?) If you’d be happy to go there, then there’s nothing that says the rest of your list can’t be as reachy as you want! If you’re viewing ASU as a “last resort” safety, then weight your list more toward matches. VT is a really nice choice, but decidedly not urban if that’s important to you. NC State seems like a great possibility. I’m not sure how competitive UMD-CP is for OOS CS and where the price tag would land, but great school.
Sounds like you’ve got a good range of schools on your radar. Good luck!