@jumpermom No, I understand that it is typically a normal question, but I personally feel it is kind of different with my roommates. Right when we moved in I had a few packages arrive of stuff I hadn’t brought with me, and jokingly they began to say I was addicted to shopping. Then they became kind of relentless with the joke. I would leave for class and they would ask if I was going to buy something, or when I got a package from my mom they made jokes about how I couldn’t control my spending. I have also noticed that these two will always always ask me where I am going and what I am doing, usually not in a super friendly tone, and that they won’t do this with our other suitemates. So, when I walked into the suite and one of them said in a snarky tone, “Another package?” I wasn’t really wanting to share the contents of the package, nor do I think they need to know everything about my life. I know that usually this is a simple question. If somebody else had asked I probably would have answered, but in this situation and it was just another build upon all the tension.