<p>As I said. I don’t think they have sex when I am in bed, but there is certainly some heavy petting going on.</p>
<p>He doesn’t make any effort to hide himself.</p>
<p>I’m also not comforatble with him seeing me in my nightwear.</p>
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<p>That really sucks. I apologize. Have you talked to her at ALL about it?</p>
<p>If reaching an agreement with your roommate is not an option, flirt with him while she’s in the room just once. He’ll probably take interest, she’ll dump him, and he’ll be gone. This is a last-ditch effort however.</p>
<p>Johnson181, I agree that the poster seems uncomfortable about discussing it, and I can understand that. But it’s one of those life lessons as important as Anthro 101 you have to learn in college. However, I think it’s not something she should discuss with “them”. She should discuss it with her roommate, at a quiet time when he’s not there. It’s the roommate who is being inconsiderate (or maybe just unaware of the discomfort she is causing) and who she needs to work this out with.</p>
<p>mhc- fair enough point, you’re 100% right. I guess I typed that out too quickly. It is the roommate who needs to be talked with first.</p>
<p>However, if she doesn’t get it/ doesn’t care about the roommates concerns, a quick “hey, stop sleeping in my room” to the guy may be needed… or getting someone involved so that it doesn’t leave her miserable for the rest of the year.</p>
<p>Did someone already say THREESOME?!</p>
<p>Wow, what a prude. Get over it, people in college have sex. You’re not comfortable with him seeing you in your nightwear? *** are you wearing…jeez. Someone’s just jealous that other people are getting some.</p>
<p>Talk to your roommate. If you are uncomfortable with him sleeping there, you should have the right to say so. </p>
<p>And neal.young:
I don’t care what people do in their private life, but a college dorm room with a roommate isn’t private and thus, isn’t the place for whatever they are doing under there. And I don’t think any one wants a near stranger seeing them in their nightwear. I certainly don’t.</p>
<p>Threesome idea seconded.</p>
<p>neal.young</p>
<p>I am not a prude. I had no problem with him just sleeping over. I even accept that they’re not going to entirely keep their hands off each other when they are in the same bed and I am in mine. I just wish they would be a bit less obvious about it.</p>
<p>I normally wear a nightie to bed and did so at first when he slept over. I’ve switched to pjs when he’s around because he was taking too much interest.</p>
<p>You don’t have to feel in the slightest defensive about n. young or your roommate or anyone else. You have as much right to your personal comfort where you are living as they do. Actually probably more. </p>
<p>I really do hope you will assert yourself. You can be nice and understanding, hopefully they will be too. But do it and know that you are absolutely right.</p>
<p>Neal Young, with all your talk about prudery, you’re probably the kind of guy who would freak if his room mate were having noisy gay sex in the next bed, and if his hunky or fey partner began taking interest in you when you walked around in your underwear.</p>
<p>Nothing less thn a 3some is acceptable.</p>
<p>NaberKanka</p>
<p>If I were to going to have a 3some it would be with two guys and not mff - and certanly not including my roomies creepy bf.</p>
<p>^ Amen sister.</p>