<p>Hey. So I'm a freshman in college. I'm I'm a suite with 3 other girls. One is always with her friends. The other two ( one my roommate) are always out with her friends. I've tried to join them and they all just look over me
And done egnolige me when I'm there. That's cool. I don't want to hang out with them. But my roommate on the one she's been hanging with are always going in and out of the room. When they are in the room they don't even look at me but when I speak to them they speak back but quickly. I know we aren't supposed to be all buddy buddy with our roommates but we are living together and I'd like to not be ignored or left out. I'm also struggling with making friends of my own. I'm a bit of an introvert and have some social anxiety. I talked to people and then that's it. Non of my class talking buddies seam to want to be friends. My best friend moved out of state so that's hard too.
I know this is a little complainy but I'm just stuck and don't know how to fix this. Any suggestions? Mostly on how to bring up the ignoring and leaving out with my roommate. </p>
<p>I hate to sound harsh, because you really did get dealt a bad hand of cards here, but I’m not sure there’s much you can do. I mean, this is college, your roommate is under no obligation to be friends or even bearable if she doesn’t want to be. She sounds like the kind of person for whom leaving you out isn’t something she cares if she’s doing.</p>
<p>I could be wrong, maybe try to approach her about it, but it doesn’t seem like it would help.</p>