<p>I think you posted in your other thread
I hope you’re not drunk in your room; otherwise, you might creating problems for your freshman roommates, see UB policy
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<p>Neuroticparent’s advice is probably the most practical on this, and the other, thread :)</p>
<p>When I see “don’t ignore this post” I ignore the post.</p>
<p>My son went to SUNY Buffalo and had a grand old time. Maybe too grand. So it’s not the location. </p>
<p>OP, some people are not as outgoing and socialble by nature. As long as you are not a curmudgeon, that is fine. Many, and I am among this crowd, prefer quiet people and in time things can work out as long as you find things to do, clubs and activities to join with the group and just be there.</p>
<p>Don’t try to force yourself to be who you are not. Just gently smooth the sharp edges and work to move just a little bit closer to what you want to be without jumping into it. Works a lot better that way.</p>
<p>thank you sooo much, i really appreciate all your advices…</p>
<p>From your other thread, it sounds like you get loud and obnoxious when you drink. If that’s the case, I don’t blame your roommates for not inviting you to drink with them. It also sounds like you are maybe too focused on alcohol in general. Take the good advice about other ways to meet people. Good luck.</p>
<p>Bobhabanai- it always amazes me when people post insensitive comments claiming original posters are insensitive. Thank you for posting to seek advice. You are welcome here.</p>