<p>So, I've got an interesting roommate situation. Me and my roommate have been really close, and we have the same circle of friends. After winter break, I found out that I can't come back next year for financial reasons, and that obviously affected my college experience. I became less social, but its not like I haven't been going out. I also haven't told anybody that I'm transferring next year.
So Thursday all my friends, including my roommate, go out to a hookah bar, but I can't go. While there, my roommate and another friend start talking s**t about me. Another friend told me about it. What should I do? Should I confront my roommate about it? I still have 3 months here, so it would be pretty uncomfortable if I did. I also don't want to mess up the friendship between the friend that told me and everyone else. Any advice would be greatly appreciated</p>
<p>If you don’t want to get your friend into trouble, then pretend you don’t know anything. If either of them bring **** up again, and you yourself are around to hear it, deal with them accordingly. At least confront them, you don’t need to go swinging fists.</p>
<p>I say let people talk and say whatever they want. Sometimes people can be quite malicious, even toward their “friends”. Treat others how you would like to be treated. If they don’t, someone will retaliate, and they will know how you felt today.</p>
<p>Let it go.</p>
<p>Confront her and talk ***** back. Let her know that you won’t take it.</p>
<p>I’m a guy, as is my roommate, but thanks. I think I should let it go for now at least, I don’t want 3 months of hell, and my other friend will be here for another 3 years. Thanks for the replies</p>
<p>Haters gon’ hate. Don’t give them a reason to draw on you while you sleep! It’s not a long amount of time that you’ve got left, so think of it as training for holding your tongue in an office environment!</p>