<p>Hey! I am a freshmen and currently living in a dorm room. My roommate was nice during the first two weeks, but then changed. We never really talked in the first two week, but if I start a conversation she will go on and talk. However, now she only replies one sentence if I start to talk to her. She looks at her phone while I talk to her and doesn't continue the conversation. Before, she respected our roommate contract, now she brings her friend over everyday and watch TV loudly. I am a bit annoyed by this, however, I feel like I can talk to her friend better than talk to her. Even though it gets loud, it is less awkward than two people not talking the entire day. I always say hi and see ya when I leave the room, she never says anything to me. I feel uncomfortable living with her, but I kind of not want to move because I like my current dorm room. Any suggestion? Maybe, a lot of you will tell me to talk to her, but remember she doesn't want to talk to me. And there really isn't "a problem" besides she is pretty rude. It might be impossible to find somewhere to move now, so it would be even more awkward to say it out loud.</p>
<p>I lived in dorms last semester, and I had problems with my roommate too. He wasn’t a very good guy, not to mention the fact that we had a lot of differences. However, we managed to get by. Even though we may not have liked each other much, we were able to respect each others space, wake each other when we overslept, etc. They’re just a roommate, not a best friend. I was bothered for a while too, since I always had hoped id be good friends with my roommate, but I realized maybe it wasn’t horrible this way. He actually wound up getting expelled, so I had the rooms to myself the last month or so, which certainly was nice, but I actually missed him a bit. Even though you might not get along well, they’re still your roommate, and you might find yourself lonely if they are suddenly gone.</p>
<p>She doesn’t seem too keen to be friends, so you’re best bet is to just let her be. There’s no need to move out. </p>
<p>And unless it’s explicitly covered in the roommate contract, I don’t see the problem with her inviting her friend over (unless they’re disrupting your studying). It’s her room too.</p>
<p>Thanks guys!!!
I actually don’t hate her but I feel like she hates me. Not that we have to be friends, but not smiling when we have eye contact make me feel dumb.</p>