<p>Westcoastmom. good job managing this. Your D is a treasure that I am sure you appreciate. She is handling it well. As for her RM, some are much more immature still in their freshman year. She apparently was only thinking of herself and her comfort with her mom. Consequences did not occur to her. DD’s roommate is almost 18months younger and was still much more immature, especially when required to think of others or outcomes (alarm clock going off all night, lights on at odd hours and laundry issues). They have worked out most of the issues for this year, but DD is not staying with her next year.</p>