<p>There is a lot of advice out there for military families. Take what feels right, ignore the rest and trust that your family will figure out what works best for each of you. </p>
<p>For example, I know Marines whose parents, spouses, siblings or friends are very vocal about not supporting the war in Iraq but they are even more vocal about supporting their Marine. That wouldn’t work in other military families. But all kinds of families do make it work and yours will too.</p>
<p>As for training, yes, people do get hurt but not very often. The military is going to be making a huge financial investment in your child and they want that investment to pay off. That includes keeping military members on active duty and ready to do their jobs. </p>
<p>He’ll need to talk to his unit about job placement. H had a contract to go to flight school when he joined ROTC. I don’t know if other specialties can get contracts like that or not. As for not wanting to spend a lot of time on ships, a lot of people describe deployments on ships like this, “It’s like prison with the constant threat of drowning.” In otherwords, it’s not for everyone!</p>