<p>My understanding is, and you can probably clarify this, Dan, that, as far as the Navy goes, once an officer, there is always a possibility that the U.S. government could call on you, if needed. Don't know that it happens a lot, but I'm pretty sure there is that aspect of a lifelong commitment.</p>
<p>I only know the full 4-year scholarship thing; there it is year-for-year. When my son did the Cortramid thing--I have no idea what Cortramid stands for--went to San Diego and got an overview of the various branches of Navy service, he changed his tune on that. For some surface warfare stuff, you can be commissioned into active duty upon graduation, then only owe 4 years. That had been the way he was thinking of it. He discovered, though, that he really connected with the aviation people. That means 2 years of flight school upon graduation, meaning 6 years of active duty commitment from there. He decided he preferred to spend more time doing something he really liked, than doing something he didn't like--like surface craft--just to keep the commitment shorter.</p>
<p>Am I keen on the idea of my son being a fighter pilot someday? Not exactly. What mom would be? But he truly believes in what he is doing, and really identifies not only with the people, but also the mission of the U.S. Navy. </p>
<p>Biggest thing I can advise going in is that if you are doing it primarily for the educational benefits, you shouldn't do it. You have to know why you are going into it, have to be willing to do what you may well need to do. I'll never forget when my son came home on a break and told him that his CO on campus told them early on, "I might tell you to run right into an exploding building, right into the face of danger and a high possibility of death--and you will have to be willing to do that for the good of the unit." That's what military service is. That's the way military service has to be. Again, not exactly what a mom wants to hear, but I'd rather they level with him up front, and he fully understand what he may be called to do, than for him to enter into the thing and be caught off guard when he ends up in something as messy as a war.</p>
<p>ROTC's back in my day in the early '80's worried most about the mandatory drug test 6 weeks before graduation and commissioning. I don't know that anybody who graduated with me in '84 ended up in a war, unless they went longer than their initial commitment. The way the world is today, you can figure you are going to see combat. Freedom isn't free--and it is being challenged everywhere all over the world.</p>
<p>I'm not trying to discourage you, Jvon, but am rather trying to get you to think about all aspects of the military thing before you go in that direction. Same thing I did with my son. The reason, in my case, I'm relatively at peace with his decision is that I can tell he is very much at peace with it, he understands the commitment and commensurate risks he has undertaken, and firmly believes in the mission and meaning of what he is doing. Granted, he hasn't been on active duty yet... I pray for his safety. I feel better, though, knowing that guys like him and the others in his ROTC unit are serving their country. </p>
<p>In my own experience, I found the Navy ROTC people at every level to be very forthcoming and straightforward. Given that my son was only 17 when he was interviewed for an Immediate Selection Decision ROTC scholarship (which he ended up getting), I had to be present in the interview with him, and got the chance to interact a bit with the Regional Commander. No sugar coating there. Personally, I appreciated that.</p>