Rugby vs frat

<p>I'm doing some college visits right now at some large schools on the west coast and while I'm still a junior it's getting me thinking about college life. I'm the captain of my football team and while I don't want to play football, rugby as a club sport does interest me. I like the idea of having a team and becoming friends with the guys but I also like the idea of a frat for that same type of reason but I don't want to be a part of a organization that is preppy and full of not so great people. What can any of you tell me about the frat guys and rugby players at your schools? Are there any stereotypes? Thanks</p>