<p>Because I just ran the Parent Plus calculation for another thread, I can tell you that a Parent Plus loan of $100k over 10 years will be $1200 a month for 120 months, or about $765 a month for 300 months (25 years).</p>
<p>So Mike, you’re looking down the barrel at a repayment plan, non-discharge-able even in bankruptcy, that amortized over 10 and even 25 years is still more than many people’s mortgage for the houses they own. Just not a good place to start out from.</p>
<p>Either your folks need to make a larger contribution in cash if they can each year, or you need to get seriously well-paying summer employment to mow that balance down to a more manageable number, or look at a financial safety, or start out at a community college and then transfer, etc.</p>
<p>The guideline for student federal debt is about $30,000, which costs a little under $350 a month to pay back over 10 years. That’s a car payment (or a car and a half payment if you’re leasing something like a mazda That’s about as hefty as you want to go in this job market unless you want to live in a box by the river, or your parent’s basement, or occupy the town square, or live off the grid, awaiting a post-capitalist collapse ;)</p>
<p>I am trying to make this really concrete for you. I know I still haven’t answered your question (yet).</p>
<p>You have a two-faced blessing/curse situation – your parents earn enough that you are “middle” to “upper-middle” class, meaning you can actually entertain options not readily available to some, and likely have financing options also not available to many (eg. cheap helocs, etc.) But your parents do not appear to be prepared for the real-world contribution required to send a kid to college. Even state flagships cost folks $24,000 k a year with housing included. So to say one can contribute $5,000 just isn’t ‘planet reality.’</p>
<p>RPI is an awesome admit and I’m sorry it isn’t more affordable for you. </p>
<p>Now, to answer your question, I can’t precisely answer your question because I don’t know enough about your folks, but here’s my guess at what they’re worried about:</p>
<p>In order to sign your loans, or take even parent plus loans, you need a reasonable credit score and “ratio” room to qualify. Parent Plus loans are more lenient, but not THAT lenient.</p>
<p>If your folks can’t afford more than $5k cash a year, I am betting it is because they are still paying a hefty mortgage, paying for car loans, paying for health care, have high utility bills, etc. I am betting they’re not squandering cash at the local casino or anything.</p>
<p>This means they may already be RIDING at a high debt ratio – but they pay on time so they have a good score. </p>
<p>Now, you get to Junior year and they have $50,000 more in unsecured debt going into their credit score. Suddenly the credit score goes down 100 points (that can actually happen if you get too close to a debt load threshold.) </p>
<p>Is it possible they wouldn’t qualify in junior year for another 25k? You bet it’s possible. Is it possible to run your ratio too high to get a Plus? Sure it is. Ask any kid who attends NYU if it’s ever happened to their folks – you see it on these threads all the time.</p>
<p>How to figure out if it will happen to you is:</p>
<p>a) ask your parents to find out if they have the capacity to borrow the FULL amount right this second. If they have the capacity to borrow $100k RIGHT THIS INSTANT, then they might not max out. (Note that if THEY can’t qualify, then YOU can’t qualify.)</p>
<p>b) ask your parents if it’s even remotely possible one of them could become ill, lose a job, or have to pay for unexpected medical expenses within the next three years. Unless they’re from another planet, of course it’s possible. The question is, what do they have set aside to meet such contingencies?</p>
<p>So, there are a lot of variables to consider, and their financial planner or accountant might be in the best position to calculate whether or not this is too great a risk for them.</p>
<p>At the end of the day, I think your parents have your back on this. I think they’re likely smart enough to realize they don’t have enough wiggle room to back you for this much in loans, and they are hoping to help you see first-hand that it’s not viable. </p>
<p>For whatever reason, the cost of college has likely caught them off guard. Maybe they never expected you to apply to expensive private schools. All that matters now is that you and they make intelligent decisions to avoid shackling yourselves to unmanageable amounts of debt. It’s tricky, and I wish you well in the process.</p>