<p>Maybe the super moderators with 16,000 posts are just tired of typing. And for those too young to know, the # references harken back to the Charlie Chan era of filmmaking (slightly before North America was colonized but sometime after the Stone Age). Charlie Chan referred to his eldest son as his #1 son. </p>
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<p>Many families have questions about the process because it’s new. What they went through with Darling Son #1 (DS1) may be different from what they’re going through with DD1 (Darling Daughter #1) or DS2. Parents on these threads provide a lot of help. If a thread topic doesn’t interest you, skip it.</p>
<p>I think it’s extremely dehumanizing, giving a number to each of your children doesn’t seem very caring/loving lol. Stop trying to make your own abbreviations like you’re trying to be “hip” :)) it isn’t too hard to type out. Don’t be lazy.</p>
<p>Do you ever use abbreviations? Ever? When you do, are you trying to be hip? Or are you being lazy? Lol does it matter? In the grand scheme of things…</p>
<p>I can admit, I stopped trying to be hip long ago…and yes, it is easier to use abbreviations. </p>
<p>I’m honestly just glad my parents don’t use this site. I would hate for them to constantly be intervening in my college business and decision-making… My main point about the abbreviations is that it’s dehumanizing and rude to the actual kids they are referring to. I wouldn’t like to be called “S1” what am I, a robot or science experiment? @newhavenCTmom</p>