<p>As far as I know, If one subject is singular and one plural and the words are connected by the words or, nor, neither/nor, either/or, and not only/but also, you use the verb form of the subject that is nearest the verb.</p>
<p>Either the bears or the lion has escaped from the zoo. Neither the lion nor the bears have escaped from the zoo.</p>
<p>If “bears have escaped” is correct, then why isn’t “you are” correct in my example?</p>
<p>Some other examples are:</p>
<p>Either Grandpa or my sisters are going to the park. (closest subject is plural)
Either my sisters or Grandpa is going to the park. (closest subject is singular)
Neither she nor I am going to college. (closest subject is singular)</p>
<p>If these examples follow the subject-verb agreement, then why is the "you"rule different?</p>