<p>musiclover39, it might help you to think about the absolute value problems like this:
If you have | x - 4 | = 8, to solve this, you should ask yourself, what number is 8 units away from 4? or with |x - a | = b, what number is b units away from a?
Then realize that it could be 8 units away to the right or to the left.
So you have either 12 or -4.
This approach works nicely with inequalities involving absolute values, also.</p>
<p>In a different category, if you have a question like |3x - 4 | = 8, solve it in stages. First, what values for 3x are 8 units away from 4. The possibilities for 3x are 12 and -4. So the possibilities for x are 4 and -4/3</p>