Tripling in 24 years is an annualized 4.7%… less when you subtract the cost of the “significant improvements” you made including adding extra rooms and more usable sqft. I wouldn’t call this type of outcome “getting lucky.” 4.7% is similar to the historical average annual increase for home equity, which is less than half the historical annualized gain for the S&P 500.
That said I agree with you that a house can sometimes be a good financial investment, and one should consider more than just the financial numbers when deciding whether to buy or rent, including personal quality of life benefits .
I live in a VHCOL area where the least expensive condo starts at ~$1M, and homes with a small amount of property typically exceed $2M. My first home was essentially the least expensive condo that was very close to where I worked. It was an upgrade from the apartment that I previously rented, but it did not have most of the key features I wanted to have in a home, so I was never particularly satisfied. I made a larger net gain than I would have made in the stock market during this period, which primarily relates to the stock market tanking, with an average annualized S&P 500 gain of under 1% per year during the reference period.
I was more thoughtful with my 2nd home and took a more active role in the process. I waited to buy until I thought the market conditions were right – shortly after the subprime mortgage crisis, when prices were more favorable compared to historic trends, and my regional market was flooded with short sales and foreclosures. My realtor and I spent months looking for the perfect home. He gave me access to the private realtor database, which I’d use to find a list of homes that we’d visit each weekend.
I bid on several homes. One got as far as inspections. However, I walked away after the inspection revealed some issues with improperly mitigated past water damage and potential mold. Eventually I came across a unique, one of-a-kind home that was an especially good fit for me, with many features I have never seen before. We closed on the day before switching from short sale to foreclosure, which was helpful towards price negotiation. I was satisfied with the price in an absolute sense, and over $100k worth of A/V equipment was included within that price.
Financially the home has done well since then, with an average annualized gain in value of ~8% per year (prior to what will be a substantial capital gains tax + selling costs). However, even with the higher annualized gain, I would have likely had a better net with market investments. Beyond finances, the quality of life benefits have been worth the relative loss to me, even more so when working from home since COVID. With the home, I now have the space to have things like a nice theater and exercise area. I also enjoy have a fenced in yard for my dog, as well as trails + that lead to a large athletic field where my dog sees and plays with other neighborhood dogs most days. My dog adoption last year wouldn’t have been approved if I did not have a fenced in yard. I also like the neighborhood – low crime rate, friendly + helpful neighbors, wide sidewalks, rated one of the best areas in US for pedestrian safety, etc. All of these metrics are better than any other location I have lived.