I leave for college in 2 weeks. I’m really nervous but I’m also excited. I’m scared to leave home and be by myself. I won’t know who my roommate is until move in day and I don’t know anyone who’s going to my school. I cry everyday because I’m scared to leave home. Any advice?
don’t cry
It’s just really hard knowing that I’ll be leaving my mom and my family.
It is natural to feel stressed by a big change like this, but you will do fine. You will see them on breaks, and there are phones & computers for emails, Skype, etc. Usually in the first day or two on campus there is an opportunity to sign up for clubs or activities; make sure you go to that and sign up for a couple of things.
How far are you going? Will you be able to see them before Thanksgiving?
You are going through what young adults have gone through for generations. It’s part of growing pains. At least you can text, Skype, email or call home when you feel blue. It’s normal to feel apprehensive but you should be excited to see what the future holds. When you start feeling sad think of the good things college will give you.
Remember that a ship is safe in harbor, but that’s not what a ship is for.
You’ll be fine.
How far away is your home from college? Is it possible for you to make the occasional trip back home on weekends? Is there a way you could have your mom and family send care packages? If you’re ever feeling down, you can look into the packages and remind yourself of your family. Could you FaceTime or Skype them? Sending letters back and forth is another idea, as it creates anticipation for what your family has to say (instead of the typical text message). I would suggest joining new clubs and finding new interests. Colleges are filled with activities, with something to appeal to everyone. I’m sure that you can make new friends rather quickly by joining organizations. Does your college have specific events for freshmen? If so, I would attend them. You’ll meet new people who are in the same position as you! Another idea is to become aware of the people living on your dorm floor. Your dorm might have activities specifically for the people living in your dorm- the activities can help you meet new friends, and those people can expose you to even more people. Check your college’s website to see what types of activities, clubs, events, etc. they have available. Good luck! 
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