<p>Thanks for the comments and encouragement. I do have some worries - hopefully they are unreasonable. But I'm also afraid I didn't explain myself very well. </p>
<p>I poured through the catalog prior to her decision in order to check that her college goals were possible at that particular school. It was not her first choice school, and I didn't want to encourage her to take the best financial school if her <em>dreams</em> were not possible there. (Also, it was much less of a financial bargain if a 5th year was involved.) At the other schools, she was not going to be a music performance major - but at this school, they tied the money to it. So it was necessary for us to know that a second major would be possible, or it wouldn't be worth it. What we learned is that it is do-able, but tight. She will have a few extraneous credits to allow her to "look around" but not many. Scheduling will be important.</p>
<p>So no, she has not yet done the same sort of work I have done. I don't mean to imply that I wish to do anything for her, or that I don't believe she can do it. But at this point, I know a lot more than she does. Sometime in the next 3 weeks, I want my D to explore some of these things herself, so she has some ideas going in. </p>
<p>I do agree that counselors should be more qualified than moms to help first year students. I just don't think they care as much about her finishing in 4 years, and we can't afford (literally) for her to get behind. Since she is not officially listed as a double major (can't, till later), the counselors are not going to be working toward fitting courses into both majors; only music and core. </p>
<p>She doesn't know what her second major will be yet. I would like her to "taste" some things early on, to allow her to select core courses that fit with what she might like to study in depth. For example, I discovered that intro to linguistics counts as a <em>math</em> core course. She can satisfy that core and find out more about one of her interests. The counselor might be more inclined to say, "You need math; here's one that will fit in your schedule." It might not be intuitive to D to say, I want linguistics for my math course.</p>
<p>I am hoping my uneasiness with the school is misguided. Our track record isn't great. D sent them several emails in April (while trying to chose a school), to various departments, asking questions, and never, ever received any answer. (We later heard that the school was having trouble with email.) She emailed her admissions counselor with questions and got an immediate response: Sorry, I'm leaving for vacation in the morning and don't have time to answer, ask someone else. </p>
<p>Maybe those were just flukes. Maybe they're better in person. I do think she is going to have to be her own advocate, but I'd like to help keep the learning curve to a minimum.</p>