<p>I spent the last two years looking for the right college experience. Some that I visited -- Mich, MSU. Syracuse, Lehigh, Northwestern, CMU, Case, Kalamazoo, F&M, Kenyon, Oberlin, Wooster, Colgate, Villanova, Pomona, and many NESCAC schools. Knew I couldn't get into HYP and soon learned I liked the NESCAC 's best. Although some better than others and am now attending one of them.</p>
<p>As each day goes by I am reassured that I made the best decision for me. The residential experience is great -- I am meeting kids from all over the world. Academics are excellent. And I can still be an athlete -- D3 competition here is less intense then it was at my high school.</p>
<p>The first school I visited was UM. Thought it may be the one. We are in-state and many of my friends attend. Spent the weekend with one of my high school friends and his brother, an RA (soph) who was enrolled in the Honors college. Knew then I couldn't deal with the numbers or mazes, or feeling that it was an extension of my high school/area where I live.</p>
<p>Many of my friends are there because they were rejected from the Ivies, Duke and/or Stanford and could not justify the costs at schools like WashU, Northwestern, or Georgetown where they got in and found comparable to Mich. Why not -- Mich is a great school, with a good reputation, and relatively cheap to attend in-state.</p>
<p>My friends who now attend love MI. They still hang mostlywith the kids from the area. Surprisingly most find the school relatively easy. Everyone moves off campus their second year. A few join fraternities or sororities. Those who got into Honors say it's probably limited to the first two years. They come home often, sometimes for just a few hours (if only to do laundry) since it's relatively close. </p>
<p>There are a million books out there that will point you in the right direction and visits will reinforce your needs. The bottom line is there is a school for everyone and until you shop and compare you may not know what you want.</p>