Yes, UCB and UCLA will not give much if any merit at all. Regents are 2k to 10k only. You will not get any more discount off the 55k price. NYU doesn’t give a lot of aid to high income people but it is an outside possibility. It is NYU poly, though, yes? Same with CMU. Penn Columbia, Cornell, Hopkins are need only use the NPC to see if you get any need aid.
U of R and Case yes. Duke, Vandy, Rice. See all the competitive merit aid in my link above, first answer. Perhaps you would be a candidate for the Georgia Tech Presidential scholarship.
You would get a lot of automatic merit for safeties. Univ of Alabama, your own instate? Others not as well ranked. Look at other tech schools too.