@lookingforward, I would exclude it because it’s so open to meddling by parents and consultants (look up the websites and articles by consultants advertising for business for an idea of the “advice.”)
I’ve read the thread and the Atlantic article on the suicides in Palo Alto. In our state, there’s been a string of suicides in Newton. Reading student essays on the topic, and watching “Race to Nowhere”, reading Doing School, etc., I’ve been struck by the overall time obligation today’s high school students are supposed to meet. I think some of the depression is caused by exhaustion, the consequence of years of going with too little sleep.
I think it’s hard to prevent young, smart, healthy people from developing outside interests. It’s a straw man to posit that if colleges didn’t care about extracurriculars, students wouldn’t take part in them. First, if that were true, then ECs should be dropped, because students would drop them after admission. Second, if colleges were not to ask about them, students would be freed to follow their own interests.
I don’t think the current college admissions system serves our good students well. I think it encourages dependency on adults. It curtails normal and healthy investigation of new interests. It channels teenaged energy into narrow paths. It discourages the development of adult identity. It tilts the field towards affluent families that can support such pursuits.
Admit students on the basis of proven academic skills. Can they write a coherent essay on a topic without adults to coach, massage, prune, edit (or even write) their work? After that hurdle has been passed, in that group of students I’m sure you’ll find enough people interested in writing for a newspaper, getting involved in the community, helping others, debating issues, forming college sports teams, creating new forms of artistic expression.
But don’t admit someone who can’t write a grammatical sentence because they have superior hand-eye coordination. Don’t admit someone who can’t add because their parents walked them through the process of founding a charity. Don’t admit someone who spends most of her time in meetings but hasn’t read an entire book since middle school. Certainly, college is not “study all the time,” but extracurricular interests cannot outweigh the ability to function in a classroom. (and I’m not restricting it to physics classrooms!)
Give them time to grow up without feeling that every moment must be documented for the College Application.
I know I sound cynical. I have great faith in my children’s generation. I don’t have as much faith in some of their parents. Too much of the “achievement” is stage-managed. I’m also concerned that the process is ratcheting into middle school. I used to worry that high school freshmen were too focused on college. Now I’m hearing from fellow parents who’re worried that their 6th graders are too focused on college.