Second year issues

<p>i guess i have two big issues this year
1. i love my roommate and get along with her very well. last year we were good friends but when i choice to room with here this year its very different. the only issue i have is my roommates boyfriend has been here 5 nights 6 days and and then came two days in a row just to visit. we have only been back 10 days. so i've gotten to see him for just about 8 days. i dont have any issues with him being over for the weekend its just that he never seems to leave. he live a distance away but comes all the time. I understand my roommate loves him and he loves her. And im totally cool with him its just to much too soon. I dont want her to be unhappy when hes not there but i need my space from him. he doesnt go to our school so he really doesnt have any place but our room to chill during the day or when shes at class. i asked her nicely if he could just stay the nights over the weekend but then she get all sad and cries when he leaves. which makes me feel horrible. the other thing is when hes here they always want the room which is ok but not all the time like when i wanna sleep need stuff or just wanna relax in my room. and i just dont know what to do. </p>

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<li>im have a lot of friends but not a close knit group to hang with every day. me and my best friend seems to have ditched me from last year. and the girls who i hang out with we kinda split up into different groups. leaving me alone. i have like 2 close friends but im shy and dont wanna interrupt into another group but i dont know what to do. my friends who i try to talk to about this respond with your popular u know people but i feel like they dont get that i'm known but i dont have those people that i hang with all the time. i dont know what to do. since many groups seem to be soo clicky around here</li>
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<p>any ideas would be great</p>

<p>If it’s a dorm then it probably has some rule regarding “perpetual” visitors.</p>

<p>I think you should man up a bit and not worry about crushing your roommate’s soul. I wouldn’t care if she’s a basket case that needs some dude around her 24/7 to be happy. A hint for her would be your relationship isn’t off to a good start if you can’t be separated more than a day.</p>

<p>re: problem 2…I’m out of advice.</p>