<p>I certainly agree that the rules can be different at different schools.</p>
<p>I should give a little bit of my background, so you don't think I have only ever been at MIT (smiles).</p>
<p>I have worked in the financial aid / student finance industry for about 17 years, first at Key Bank (when it was run as Knight Tuition Payment Plans as a Student and Parent Loans Account Manager), then at Boston College (as an Assistant Director of Financial Aid), at the Massachusetts Educational Financing Authority (as Director of Operations for their Parent Loan Program), then at Lasell College (small, LAC in Newton, MA), as a technical consultant for financial aid offices around the country, then at Simmons College as Assoc Dir of Student Financial Services, and finally, for the last 4 years, as Director of Student Financial Aid at MIT. </p>
<p>As for the South, I spent my high school years in Charleston, SC, although I was born in the Panama Canal Zone (in Central America). I've been in Boston since college (I attended Brandeis and Northeastern as undergrads - I transferred, and Boston University for graduate school).</p>
<p>Anyway, jsut thought it might be helpful to know my background.</p>
<p>And I do feel welcome on the site, merlin. I worry that a lot of this information may be not correct that people pass around to each other which is why I decided to join in. I have tried to convince my colleagues to come and be a part of this as well, but so far not many takers...</p>
<p>And, I can take a joke!! ;)</p>
<p>Oh, if undecided is ill, he does need to contact the lender directly. Most likely they will still run out his grace period first, but they will probably set him up for an immediate hardship forbearance right after...</p>