@drxxpresso – Yeah, you are not alone in being a little neurotic!! Everyone keeps forgetting that the tough part is getting the 224, and everything after that is going through the motions. 1.6 million kids take the test, and only 16,000 become Semifinalists. Then, only 1,000 of those don’t become a Finalist.
Trust me, it’s pretty tough to not be one of the 15,000 Finalists (odds are 1/16, or 6.25%)! Many of the 1,000 don’t chase the scholarship because they are eligible for tons of financial aid wherever they end up, or they are wealthy and know they are headed to schools that don’t participate (so going through the motions for the small chance to snag a one-time $2,500 award is not attractive to them). Yet others have some issue in their high school record (behavioral issue, cheating, etc.) where they just know they won’t make it. Although there are invariably a few posts every year, it is statistically highly unlikely for a regular kid (doesn’t have to be a valedictorian!) with a 224 to not become a Finalist, so please, relax and congratulations!!!
If you want to obsess about something, obsess over which mega scholarship you are going to chase, or whether your DD20 is going to be cheated out of some life-altering experience by not spending $300,000 for a “prestigious” diploma over a free (or nearly free) degree at a school chasing the National Merit credential. (This is a fun debate every year!! :)) Of course, if you have significant financial need, this doesn’t apply to you, but the parents obsessing over National Merit Scholarships tend to be upper middle class, where they cannot easily write a $75,000 check every year for college, but are also not eligible for significant need-based financial aid.
I promise you, as long as you get everything in on time, your DD is going to be a Finalist, which is pretty awesome considering what a small slice of the country achieve it. Again, the real achievement is making Semifinalist, which you already have. The next step is a formality that is not meant to screen out kids with imperfections, but is meant to screen out kids with real issues, so that the award is based on something more than one test (although, in reality, that’s really what it is, when you consider that 93.75% make it through the screen!!).