<p>As we are winding down with our seniors, junior parents are now beginning the college search in earnest. I thought it might be helpful to list some of the things that we would have done differently. My list:</p>
<li> Start on the scholarship search earlier. We have already missed many deadlines.<br></li>
<li> Have your child apply to a safety school, but your state university may not be the best choice. The admission fee for our state school was the highest I paid and after four months our son still has not heard. Kids who applied two months after him have already recieved their acceptances. At this point, it won’t matter because he has much better choices and we see that they are not the most organized place. There are many small schools out there that will be thrilled to accept your child. My son applied to one school and received an acceptance two days after he sent in the application (before they received all of his materials). He has been regularly receiving letters from various individuals at the school. They have made him feel wanted and even for a high-achieving student, that certainly helped ease the stress of the process. </li>
<li> Read the small print. There are “scams” out there. My son received an application from a local school that promised a decision within two weeks. The admission fee was stiff and missing from the original letter was the fact that a $250 nonrefundable deposit was due immediately to secure his place.<br></li>
<li> Don’t be surprised if after driving a couple of hours, your child takes one look at the campus and says he doesn’t like it. I found my son pretty much made up his mind within a minute of getting out of the car. His first choice school is one where he pretty much felt comfortable from the start. There is a great book (hopefully someone will remember the name - something like “Take my child please”) which is a very humorous look at the college application process.<br></li>
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<p>Looking back now, the year was not as bad as I thought it would be. Even without hearing from his regular decision schools, he has some great choices. I just took out all of the books yesterday to start this anew with my daughter and hopefully we as a family learned something from our first time through.</p>