<p>PostPunkMom, if I were sending a daughter–or son–off to college now, I think I would have her or him read the two papers we’ve seen linked here and discuss them before school starts. Seriously.</p>
<p><a href=“http://www.middlebury.edu/media/view/240951/original/[/url]”>http://www.middlebury.edu/media/view/240951/original/</a></p>
<p><a href=“https://www.ncjrs.gov/pdffiles1/nij/182369.pdf[/url]”>https://www.ncjrs.gov/pdffiles1/nij/182369.pdf</a></p>
<p>I would make it clear, especially to a D, that the beginning of freshman year is the most vulnerable period, and while you want her to have a good time and you have confidence in her, you also want her to be informed.</p>
<p>All of the self-defense classes in the world won’t help if she allows herself to be plied with alcohol and isolated or otherwise coerced.</p>