Seniors Dating Freshmen

<p>I just wanted to get an idea from places outside of my school towards boyfriend/girlfriend relationships between Seniors and Freshmen. There are some of those kind in my school, and it seems odd to me and most of my friends, but there are a few that don't seem to find it odd. </p>

<p>Just Curious!</p>

<p>Thanks in advance for input!</p>

<p>Well, some of the seniors guy will occasionally, but it's mostly because they want...(I'm pretty sure you can figure it out)</p>

<p>Most people will date a grade or two higher, but most people don't date college students and most seniors date seniors or juniors</p>

<p>No. HELLLL no. If your a senior dating a freshmen, I'm sorry buddy, but maybe you shouldn't be dating at all (not to the op, in general). The mental, physical, and emotional differences between the two ages are miles apart. It has the same creepiness factor as a college gay dating a highschool girl (albeit a little less). It usually also means the guy couldn't pull any of his own age, and there is probably a good reason for that</p>

<p>"It has the same creepiness factor as a college gay dating a highschool girl"</p>

<p>Funny typo.</p>

<p>It's fairly common at my high school. It doesn't bother me that the girls are way too blind to see that those senior guys only want one thing... or two or three.</p>

<p>well, on average, senior guys and freshmen girls are incredibly dumb. they make a good match. one wants popularity and the other wants _____ (enough clues on the post to figure out)</p>

<p>Four years is too much. One or two is fine in my opinion.</p>

<p>There was a senior in my class who wanted to take a junior high girl to the prom. I don't know if he was really serious about it but it was common knowledge that he was attracted to girls much younger than him.</p>

<p>I have a four your difference between my boyfriend and I. We've been together for almost three years on and off. Our relationship started when I was twelve and he was sixteen. Also, we went to different schools, so there was no popularity and _______ involved. Yes, it may seem like a big age gap, but it really depends on the people in the relationship. Different people have different experiences throughout their life, and due to circumstances causes some to mature faster.</p>

<p>12 and 16?? That must be...illegal. It should be. My sister is 12, and if she were dating some high school sophomore, I'd kill him.</p>

<p>lol...it's not illegal,unless _______ is involved. Which I can assure you, my relationship is not about ______.</p>

<p>My district's high schools are grades 10-12, so anyone's freshman girlfriend or boyfriend would still be attending junior high. This tends to put a damper on those relationships.</p>

<p>Of course, sophomores are our city's version of "fresh meat," but that one year makes a big difference. It's not seen as inappropriate for a senior to date a sophomore, provided he has good intentions--and being older and more experienced, he might not. It would be pretty big news if any mainstream senior dated a freshman.</p>

<p>Also, if a 16-year-old sophomore and an 18-year-old freshman wanted to, ahem, become physical, they would be well within our state laws. An 18-year-old and a 14 or 15-year-old would not be.</p>

<p>As a senior I dated a freshmen... Honestly it was not something that I really planned on having happen, it just ended up happening. The age difference was not really a problem (despite so joking around from friends, and actually even her at times). Anyways we only dated for about 2 months before it all fell apart.</p>

<p>Freshmen girls only date seniors because they've been there for four years and will do anything to be popular. So the seniors take advantage of an easy way to get what they want.</p>

<p>Ya, so, I'm a senior girl and I dated a freshmen guy (I was 17 and he was 15), and it really wasn't that big a deal for me (however, for my friends it was a different story). So, we hooked up on a band trip didn't really date for that long, but he was definitely more mature than most guys his age (both physically and mentally) and there was no _______ involved, so whatever. I guess it depends on the person.</p>

<p>For the most part, it just seems like a bad idea. I mean, little girls (which freshies are) are young and naive and innocent, even if they've engaged in sexual activity prior to freshman year. When I was a rising junior (and 15), I dated a rising senior. At Yale. Who was 20. Needless to say, that ended with my little girl's heart being broken. It definitely was a lesson that needed to be learned at some point, but perhaps the ramifications of my actions came too early on in my life. </p>

<p>BY THE WAY, THIS IS MY 200TH POST! COOL!</p>

<p>I would have to go with no on this one. There is just way too much of a difference in maturity level between seniors and freshman. Nope, i'd say its just too wierd.</p>

<p>yes exactly what ashley said. even though in the future u may be marrying someone 3 years younger than you, in high school, freshmen are so much more immature and attitude is completely different...senior-freshmen relationships are just weird</p>

<p>i don't think it matters, it's not going to last long anyways</p>

<p>usna...thats true.....and i think it depends on how mature the freshman girl is bc some can be very mature while others can just be stupid....</p>