<p>Some people can probably write about a severe setback, such as a fatal (to other people, of course) car accident or harassment, for example. But one of the most notable examples, to me, is when I didn't make a certain team I had my heart set on as a freshman. I decided how I did another activity, which has been even better. Will that be read as someone whining about something that's not a big deal? I do address, though, that my sense of perspective has evolved to a point where I would no longer freak out (I don't use those words) about something like that.</p>
<p>My friend wrote about not getting a certain spot on the tennis team. It sounded a little whiny to me but he got in. Just remember to write about something that makes you different from somebody else.</p>
<p>My experience with setback essays (barring the truly tragic) is that they need to be funny to work. Make your point while humorously poking fun at the situation: it shows you understand the triviality of the event (I can guarantee you it wasn't as important as you think), and it also gives you a nice facade behind which you can subtlely interject the true meaning of your essay (that you can turn adversity into accomplishment.)</p>
<p>Funny essays are also considerably more enjoyable to read than sob stories. The admissions officer will appreciate it.</p>
<p>I think your topic is fine -- it's what you do with it. As Big says - make it funny, if you can, and definitely personal. Think how depressing it would be to read essay after essay about divorce, death, sickness, etc. Not making a sports team might be a refreshing change of pace -- especially if you show you're keeping it in perspective.</p>