<p>Maybe you should reserve judgment until you actually see the results? It’s really rather melodramatic and rude to complain about how people are just trying to encourage you. I mean if you hate being told that it’s alright and you’ll get in…why are you asking us to tell you that it’s alright and you’ll get in? :/</p>
<p>Whatever. Anyway, obviously if you’ve gotten into UCB, getting waitlisted by two schools doesn’t mean that you’ll get waitlisted/rejected everywhere else. Perhaps you were waitlisted because they thought you were overqualified or something. And regardless of the reason, college don’t all evaluate applicants the same way. They’re all looking for different things, so there’s absolutely no means or reason to extrapolate the decisions of the few schools responses you’ve seen and conclude that you’re going to get rejected everywhere.</p>
<p>Take a walk tomorrow to clear your head, hang out with friends, etc to de-stress. If people talk about admissions, politely tell them that you don’t want to talk about it right now.</p>