Sex and boozeee

Colleges and Universities A-Z Cornell University
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<p>So, I'm wondering, does anyone care if you're seen walking home in the morning with the clothes you were wearing the night before? If you live in the all-girls dorm, are you allowed to have male friends spend the night..? I'm basically curious as to how taboo sex is on campus? </p>

<p>Also, if you're drinking underage and you call campus police for a ride home, do they charge you? I recall reading somewhere that they didn't, but I'm not sure where. </p>

<p>I know many college campuses are liberal about these things, however, I've heard some rather conservative opinions about this from several friends. I'm just interested in a sampling of opinions.</p>

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<p>^ You are the reason why I can’t wait for college.</p>

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<p>yeah, thank you very much for providing a real college experience</p>

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<p>if you live in an all-girls dorm male friends can stay overnight, yes. that happened more than one time on my hall last year (I lived in Balch.)</p>

<p>as for the walk of shame…I think there are some people who wouldn’t care, others who would judge. I guess it depends on your friends and hall mates, because there are too many people here to really generalize.</p>

<p>here is info about police and escort: <a href=“http://www.cupolice.cornell.edu/emergency/blue_light.cfm[/url]”>http://www.cupolice.cornell.edu/emergency/blue_light.cfm&lt;/a&gt;
(the page is displaying a bit strangely for me, so you might have to scroll to the bottom.)
specifically:

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<p>also…have you been storing up sexual tension since you were a toddler??</p>

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<p>lol 18 years of suppressed sexual tension becomes kind of unbearable ><</p>

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<p>lol, maybe not since I was a toddler, however, I think the past couple of years ought to count thrice as much. </p>

<p>My parents are really traditional, over-protective, and judgmental about any and all relationships that aren’t marriage. </p>

<p>Pienso que yo tengo una fiesta en mis pantalones - siempre.</p>

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<p>lol. There are guys in Balch all the time, and many spend the night. You only might have an issue if you have a roommate/roommates and they aren’t okay with the idea.</p>

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<p>I don’t think the Blue Light Escorts are intended to be used as a designated driver service on any college campus.
RE:How taboo is sex? You are joking, right?</p>

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<p>I know they’re not intended to be used as designated drivers, I was just curious about the option. Also, yea. The taboo part was intended to be lighthearted, again, just curious about the situation o_O</p>

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<p>don’t live in balch, balch sucks a lot. I have two good female friends who were placed in balch against their will and hate it. Unless you want to study 2/3s of thurs fri and saturday nights, avoid balch like the plague. It is also filled with gnarly intl asian students with questionable grooming habits and *****y temperaments.</p>

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<p>see “your guide to sin and pleasure in Ithaca”</p>

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<p>Yea I definitely wouldn’t live in Balch if I was a girl.</p>

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<p>questionable grooming habits? Lol </p>

<p>I guess I don’t have much say if there’s a lottery though, right?</p>

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<p>If you want to avoid Balch, your chances might be a little higher if you select “co-ed” rather than “no preference” in terms of gender preferences.</p>

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<p>personal opinion: Balch was a very nice place to live last year, and many of the other people who lived there were great. I recommend it.</p>

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<p>I’m living in Balch right now and I’d also recommend it, faustarp! But I can also see why others hate it. I’ve made amazing friends here, but you also need to like a quiet, less social living environment.</p>

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<p>Yeah, guys are allowed to stay over, I have quite a few times. Sex is not taboo for most here, though there are some that definitely will judge. Basically, you can find sex if you’re looking for it and know what you’re doing, but don’t expect to just jump into a party and get laid overnight…experience is often times crucial ;). As a guy who is a bit morally lax with regards to these types of things, feel free to message me any questions you have.</p>

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<p>Hmmm I’m thinking I’ll opt for coed, not that I’m opposed to Balch or anything. </p>

<p>@CornellPerson lol I have no intent of just jumping into a party and getting laid! I’m just interested in accepted protocol? I guess? o_O idk. Also, thanks, that’s kind of you.</p>

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<p>Back in olden times, what is described in post#1 is called “The walk of shame” with a girl teetering home at dawn in heels and her party clothes from the evening before, smeared makeup and bed head. These days who cares what you do, just use protection.</p>

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<p>Haha sex? taboo? What are we, a catholic school? (lol@Siena)</p>

<p>No but seriously, it’s all over every college campus, you can’t avoid it and everyone knows it goes on somewhere. I’m sure someone has been walking around for a late night snack and passed a room they wished they hadn’t. XD I’m mentally preparing myself for that awkward intrusion. What sounds better, “OH GOD, SORRY!” or just a simple “whooooa, that’s not the bathroom…”</p>

<p>Speaking of which, I was told by my transfer biddies that when they were at a party the other day in a frat house, they walked in on a brother having a threesome. The brother’s girlfriend was apart of the group that walked in on them. Ouch. Dude, seriously, didn’t you know she was at the party? hahaha. (Or was that totally his intention?..)</p>