I am surprised that parents and kids have so few questions about the darker side of teen life and how the schools deal with it - or try to prevent it. Like it or not, our kids are going to be exposed to all of these things during High School, whether at boarding school or any other school unless they are cocooned (in which case it will happen later). I have a feeling people are reluctant to air dirty laundry but it shouldn’t be a secret that these things happen.
At Loomis they have a pretty vigorous health education program especially for Freshman and Sophomores aimed at education about the impact of drugs, alcohol, and tobacco. Some kids ignore this advice.
This year they had a series of workshops about sex using a well-respected educator/speaker who tailored her discussion to the different classes and age groups. This was clearly in response to the St. Pauls events. She apparently has great rapport and made a big impression. I believe several prep schools have had the same program this year.
That said, there are known make out spots on campus and I am sure the deans know where they are. Kids are also free to walk off campus for dates where there are also plenty of spots for fooling around.
Loomis is a two strike school, but kids who get caught with drugs or alcohol go into a mandatory counselling program after the first strike. They recently elevated distribution of drugs / alcohol to immediate referral to disciplinary committee, basically making that one-strike. There is some indication that the school may be moving away from the two strikes. Kids from wealthy families do not appear to get preferential treatment.
Students with leadership roles (prefects / RAs) can be demoted at first strike.
They breathalyze kids going in to dances and other social events. Rooms are subject to search if there is any indication of prohibited substances (including e-cigs). This is not an infrequent occurrence.
The high number of day students means that alcohol and tobacco make it on to campus more easily than at some more remote schools. Kids have been able to use fake IDs at places in town, but there is currently a crackdown. There were recently 2 serious incidents related to alcohol at the school and the president of the school, to her credit, met with every class and e-mailed all parents. I appreciated that approach instead of trying to cover things up.
I believe there is less abuse/sale of stimulants (ADD drugs) than at some other schools, possibly because the academic pressure / intensity is a bit less.