<p>So the girl who I like, the exchange student, just told me she met another guy, and is starting to like him. She was happy today because of the fact that she finally got to talk to him, and she told me so. </p>
<p>I've known her 2 months, and we've done a lot together, and she told me she really like me. Well I'm kind of jealous...</p>
<p>What should I do, or what do you think is gonna happen?</p>
<p>Well, she might be doing it just to test you.</p>
<p>Or, she might really be starting to like him and sees you only as a friend.</p>
<p>Or, she likes BOTH of you. You first cuz you are friends and have known each other for longer.</p>
<p>I would bet on #1 or #3. Really.
Well, you can tell her how you feel and see what happens. The problem is that if she doesn’t feel the same you’ll ruin a friendship. Or at least cool it down for a while. I mean, the friendship won’t be the same for at least some time.</p>
<p>Oh *<strong><em>… better make that *</em></strong> official. Now.</p>
<p>Or… sit back and get killed by that Friend Zone.</p>
<p>Sounds like OP got friend-zoned.</p>
<p>Just disappear her. Or the guy. Or both. (I assume you have connections with the CIA…)</p>
<p>So she texted me “Oh forget about it :D. I still love you”. And I replied “I can’t forget about it, because I’m scared, and I’m scared because I got jealous over such a little thing, which really says something about me as a person, and it’s something bad…”. That was an hour ago, she still hasn’t replied.</p>
<p>I texted her twice since, saying to forget about what I said, and to talk about something else, but no reply…</p>
<p>you should have changed the “and it’s something bad…” to “and it’s that I love you”</p>
<p>You seem really insecure right now. Just don’t worry about it. Really. It’s not a big deal. And make sure you appear not worried about it either.</p>
<p>She just replied “I didn’t answer because I was walking with a friend. And it’s okay, I love you even when you say **** :)”.</p>
<p>And I’m really insecure, had to admit it…</p>
<p>ok, i seriously think she likes you likes you.</p>
<p>Dude, get it. Seriously.</p>
<p>Is it just me or have there been a lot of threads about love affairs with foreign exchange students lately?</p>
<p>^I think this is the same guy.</p>
<p>If you like it then you shoulda put a ring on it</p>
<p>Make it official, man.</p>
<p>^I concur.</p>
<p>OP: What are you gonna do? You can spend hours and days and maybe weeks worrying your ass off about this, but it only takes a few minutes to seal the deal.</p>
<p>Maybe I didn’t understand her last text msg, but I’m assuming the you’re still insecure about this issue?</p>
<p>That text you sent reeked of insecurity. But her response is the kind of sweet encouragement you almost only get from someone who likes you.</p>
<p>Seriously. When you don’t like someone and he’s being insecure, it’s immature and annoying and stifling. When you like someone and he’s being insecure, it’s cute and adorable, and your heart squeezes up at the thought that he thinks you don’t like him, so you have to rush back to reaffirm your affection. That’s how it works.</p>
<p>Make a move, kid.
Unless she’s the kind of girl that’s really openly affectionate, you know, for whom saying “I love you” is a supercasual thing to all her good friends. Then wait and watch.</p>
<p>Thanks guys for all the help :)</p>
<p>And yeah I know I’ve been kinda ranting about this girl in various threads…it’s just I’ve never liked a girl so much as this one, and I really want things to work out. And I’d rather ***** out my insecurities on a forum of people who I’ll probably never meet and vice versa, than my friends who I see everyday :). Thanks for bearing with me xD</p>
<p>^just hope none of your friends ever find you on here. I have to watch what I say ever since that happened o.0</p>
<p>Nah, I don’t think any of my friends have even heard of this place xD</p>
<p>And lol, you’re from Seattle eh? Well a big ‘hallow’ from Olympia :). Was at Pike’s Place and SAM (for le Picasso expo) with the girl I talked about 2 weeks ago :).</p>
<p>Hello from Edmonds, technically, but Seattle is better recognized on a board like this.</p>
<p>Was picasso amazing?!?! I’m going on a field trip to see it on friday with my IB art history class :D</p>
<p>Lol, that’s what we tell me who we meet when we travel "Where you from? “Oh we’re from Seattle”, no one knows Oly. xD</p>
<p>And yes! Picasso was definitely worth seeing, and then some. You’ll be overwhelmed with all the art they packed into such a small place xD</p>