<p>Instead of listing what I think college priorities should be for my kids I will throw this out there- I think it could easily vary depending on the child. You have to factor in their intellect, social skills, chosen major, etc. Some kids should have academics and career prep and their first two priorities. Other kids who are brilliant but socially awkward might be better served with self-discovery and social integration first. </p>
<p>For my kids I would say I would put academics first, followed by career preparation, then self-discovery and having fun.</p>