<p>alright bro listen, i dont know if you read one of my threads, in which i was in a similar situation as you are in right now. I was “playing games” with this girl for about a year and a half until it actually happened. I know its hard to just give in and call, but your the GUY here. if you actually see potential in this girl, just call her, trust me. when you call her, she’s going to realize that you thought enough about her, to call her when she’s in another country. when my girl went to Europe for a month, it was up to me to call her, and talk to her on aim. it was tough to give in, but if you think shes special…then just do it. its obvious you like her, but girls are different, they tend to be less upfront about it. and I know it really messes with our heads. so just call her and talk, you’ll both feel better. and to give u some more advice, stop playing games, and just tell her how you feel because if you dont, things can escalate and you dont want that.</p>
<p>Honestly bro, you’re psychoanalyzing this way too much. I’ve been there and done that, so no judging :). Personally, I’d just nonchalantly text her to see whats up:
“Hey! How’re the holidays going? I haven’t heard from you in a while. How’s life been?”</p>
<p>Calling is a little too formal for my style. Women don’t like to feel pressured into things, especially if you don’t have a tangible relationship (yes, a bit of an oxymoron I know). If she responds, great! Continue texting, get closer, maybe skype a little, call her every now and then. If she doesn’t, brush it off. You didn’t say anything that’d make you sound like a fool, so who cares?</p>
<p>Women only want to be heard and feel special. Some of them decide that the best way to grab mens’ attention and satisfy their own ego is to play hard to get. DON’T PLAY THE GAME. If you do, you might get her for a little while but she’ll eventually move on. Instead, make a real emotional connection and she’ll be yours to stay. Trust me on this one.</p>
<p>Better answer: Fly over to Israel and find her</p>
<p>I don’t understand why people play these games.</p>
<p>Relationship games dont make sense. People go back and forth complaining how complicated guys and girls are. theyre only complicated because you play stupid games with eachother and dont just say what you want. my advice is to just be straightforward. if you like her, call her and just say it. tell her youre giving her a final chance to be with you. if she agrees then keep her. if she’s not straight with you, give up and find a better girl. the situation isnt that tough</p>
<p>People play games because it makes the sex better</p>
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What are you the third gender? Also this advice is just wrong. NEVER tell a girl you like her. If you do like her, and she is the right girl for you, she will be able to figure it out. Also since she likes to play games with guys and chase them, wait till she gets back from Israel and make her approach you. Don’t approach her.</p>
<p>she shouldn’t have to figure it out on her own. that’s what makes everything more confusing. no one knows what the other person wants and people get into these messes</p>
<p>People don’t play games for games’ sake.</p>
<p>They play them for self-interest, of course. Guys will act aloof because they fear rejection, or they think it’ll help them trick girls into liking them (girl wonders why guy doesn’t like her).</p>
<p>Girls play games like in the OP’s case because it’s fun and flattering to have a string of 5 or 6 guys fawning over you - even if you don’t really like them all that much yourself.</p>
<p>Sometimes people honestly don’t know what they want from the other person. Other times the truth is, the person wants to use the other person simply for sex but does not want to enter a relationship. It’s great if you can be fully honest in communication (I guess) - but sometimes our own true selfish desires are just plain rude, so we hide our intentions for our own self-interests.</p>
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<p>It is usually fairly clear. </p>
<p>Anyway, telling a girl you like her ends up making you look like an insecure loser.</p>
<p>No, an insecure loser is someone who can’t be mature and just tell someone how they feel because they have a fear of rejection. Most girls like confident guys, so if he tells her how he feels then she can choose to take him or leave him. then the whole mess is over</p>
<p>That is not confidence, the girl will think that this guy is a whiny loser. A confident guy instead would ask the girl out.</p>
<p>Why should we end up bothering with those girls anyways? They’ll bring more drama than delight.</p>
<p>No don’t have sex. They have teeth. D=</p>